Dear college freshman,
College is terrifying, yet amazing, but confusing all at the same time. You move away from your family to what is hopefully the best college for you. You pick this major and hope you can make it, but you are still unsure. I'm here to tell you that is perfectly okay. I've been here for a couple years now and I recently realized that I don't want to do what I have been learning about since I started college. I have no idea what I want to do, but that's okay because I have my whole life in front of me.
Take your classes seriously, but have fun. Work, but take some time for you. Not everyone is a party person in college and that is definitely okay because I never have been. I love exploring the city my college is in, but I also like going to any of the cities that are within an hour drive of me. I spent all of my freshman year working but not taking care of myself and as a result, I almost dropped out. Go ice skating or bowling because why not?
Take the class you never thought would be an option, you will learn something about yourself. Stay up all night one weekend and just be goofy with your friends, but know when to say no. Don't stretch yourself thin with clubs, but pick a few that do interest you. Find the leadership opportunities and kill them because you rock. Take chances, but don't ignore your values and morals. Be openminded about new topics, college is for growing and finding yourself and it's okay if those views are not what your parents or family may believe.
Work all summer so you can enjoy college. Take random adventures in the middle of the night. Go on that spring break trip because spring break only lasts so many years and life eventually forces you to choose. Be there for your friends, but if they're not there for you ma
ybe reconsider the friendship. Surround yourself with individuals who care about you and cut out those that are toxic because no relationship is worth feeling less than you are worth.
Please remember that self-care is important. It is not self pity, but the exact opposite. Start taking care of yourself from the get go. Mentally and physically. You may not be able to take bubble baths living in a residence hall, but you can have a movie night with your roommate. Keep a journal, pursue counseling services if you think you would benefit. Don't forget about yourself while trying to make sure others are okay.
From,
A college junior who seriously struggled her freshman year.